Success

This blog is closed after success! Managed to have 2 beautiful babies through FET's. Thanks God for your blessings!

Week 37 – 41

I have been working till week 39 but at the start of the week 39 I was down with severe flu, sore throat and phlegm so I took around 1 ½ week medical till my due date. As I’m writing this now I’m 3 days passed my due date. Despite my walking, climbing stairs and active life style baby seems to be settled well inside me. Now on 31^st March I personally do not want him to arrive on the 1^st April. So today and tomorrow I will take it slow just being a couch potato!

In the meantime I’m under continuous monitoring for baby’s heartbeat amniotic fluid etc., to ensure he is fine inside me. I’m also at a higher dose of insulin now at 8-8-10 all 3 meals to control my blood sugar levels as well as baby’s weight. Last time he was approximately 4kgs.

By end of this week i.e. maximum by due date + 5 days I will be induced. I’m still hoping for normal delivery. As per last check with midwife baby’s head is nicely positioned and I was dilated. So I’m still hoping that things will go smoothly with the long awaited arrival of my baby!

I would also like to mention here how supportive and friendly the family clinic - Fertilitas has been all throughout my pregnancy.

Week 17 – 36 – 2nd & entering 3rd Trimester

My second trimester had been pretty quiet with almost back to normal life. Feeling of flutters which slightly grew into strong kicks which then turned into movements close to the third trimester. Yes I do not feel much kicking anymore instead I feel and see my stomach moving sometimes specially after meals.

At around week 26 I had to go on a tuff hike climbing around 400 meters. I had climbed around 1500 meters in the past but this 400 meters seemed never ending hike with my pregnancy. I was a little worried after completing this challenge, as around this time I also started to feel less kicking. Thank God scan ensured everything was ok.

At around week 30 I was diagnosed with gestational diabetics. I have no explanation as to how I got these, because all I craved during the pregnancy was sour and spicy stuff. I could hardly take anything sweet. I would consume home baked cakes occasionally as snacks and I liked them because it was less sweet. Gestational diabetics means the baby gets more supply of sugar than required and he might grow big in size. Resulting in early delivery, c-section and baby having blood sugar problems after birth.

I went for a diet counselling and also had to monitor my blood sugar levels at home before and after meals. Finally my Dr referred me to a endocrinologist to control my sugar levels with medicine. But still at week 36 I have not seen the Dr as it is carnival season now everything is shut. My iron and B12 levels are also low, I feel extremely tired at times. I try to eat an egg a day and add more spinach to my diet in addition to all the multi-vitamins I take.

In the meantime scan reveals that lil fella is growing at a good speed and estimated to be slightly above the range. He was estimated to be around 2.9kg at 35 weeks.

In the meantime I have started climbing stairs (3-5 storey) and walk at least 3 km a day during week days trying my best to have a normal birth. Weight gain so far at 36 weeks 12.5 kgs.

First Trimester Screening Medium Risk

Week 12- 20
I had my first trimester screening when I was 13 weeks. NT scan looked ok at 1.4mm. I also had to do a blood test, and the results from the blood test came for trisomy 13/18 as 1:305.  Below 300 is high risk and mine in border level high risk. Trisomy 21 was at 1:3989.

at 13 weeks 7.9 cm

Dr called me up for a detail discussion and had to do draw further blood for panorama testing – Non-invasive pre natal testing. Links for further reading about this test. http://www.lifelabs.com/Lifelabs_ON/Patients/TestInfo/Special/Panorama.asp

It usually takes 2 weeks to get the Panorama test results. But I had to do again after 2 weeks as in the first testing they could not find enough sample of baby's DNA. Time passed and at 16 weeks I gave another sample for panorama screening. To our surprise they could not find enough sample again!!! Apparently I'm one of the 1% of people from whom they are unable to get enough sample.

My regular Dr recommended me to do a special screening similar to anomaly scan with a fetal specialist. He measured many parts of the baby to check any abnormalities. Scan lasted for up to 15-20 minutes. Finally he said baby looks fine.

at 18 weeks 3D image

In the meantime the Lab offered to do panorama testing one more time and did not charge us for the previous 2 attempts. At 18 weeks I gave a 3rd round of blood sample for panorama screening.

Finally at week 20 we got the all clear 'Low risk' results.

Meanwhile I have gained 5 kgs so far, and still vomit even at week 20 when my stomach is empty for a long time.

I think this whole trisomy drama occurred because I had low B12. I feel it is one of the important pregnancy vitamin that is ignored by many. See link on http://www.webmd.com/baby/guide/anemia-in-pregnancy

However finally I'm relieved to have the results and now trying prepare myself mentally for the arrival of Baby Boy!

Week 8 – 12 & Being Vegetarian during Pregnancy (Aug - Sep)

Since last scan at week 8 things have started to get back to normal. Less nausea in morning. Occasional cramps, dizziness and headache but no more breast tenderness. I wasn’t sure. I worry all the time. AK keeps saying how much would you worry? ‘It happens if it has to happen’ That’s pretty true if I keep worrying there will be no end as this is something that will continue till… I don’t know when. (education, exams, job, wedding, birth of grandkids) Stop Worrying!

Week 9

We went to our usual Dr Pavic again. Scan was ok, things were normal. But I had to do a blood test to check Vit D, Iron levels and B12. I follow a vegetarian diet and eat egg only occasionally purely due to health reasons. Therefore these levels needed to be checked. Results came out to be Vit D low, Iron Ok, B12 low but no need of injections. I had to take Vit D supplements and I also started drinking Marmite for B12.

My diet so far…

Breakfast – Full cup milk with nescafe and ovomaltin, 1 cup Marmite, 1 Apple

Lunch – Salad, legumes, corn, rice, relatively light lunch

Dinner – Noodles with vegetables, tofu and egg

Pasta, tomato, mozzarella Rice and curry etc.,

I drink milk, eat cheese and consume legumes like lentils, chickpeas, kidney beans etc.,

I also take supplements which is Centrum Materna, Vit D and Omega 3

 

Week 9  Size 2.5cm

Week 11

After my scan on week 9 Dr mentioned that I could come back in a month for week 13 scan which would be Nuchal Translucency scan. I could not wait that long so went for a scan during Week 11. It was a miraculous scene! The little embryo had grown into a tiny human with small head tiny hands and tiny legs at a total length of 4.6cm (No photo)

Week 6 – 8 July - Aug

Since my last scan seeing the yolk sac I had intermittent cramps and vomited again one morning. I was walking to work, on my way I had to stop vomit in a plastic bag carry it for a while till I came across a bin. Quite weird!

Close to  the scheduled scan on Week 7 I had cramps they were more frequent started on a Thursday evening last till Friday night. Some were pretty sharp. Eventhough scan showed heartbeat and good growth, I was very apprehensive specially considering my last miscarriage happened with lots of cramps. Dr keeps telling me, if you don’t bleed no need to worry. But it could happen that you aren’t bleeding due to the progesterone suppositories.

Week 7

Around week 8 I did not experience much symptoms. I prepared myself mentally and my hubby as I did not want to get it as a shock via the scan. We went to the scan and I told Dr that I’m not sure due to lack of symptoms. Dr directly did a ultrasound scan. (all this time scan was intrauterine) Surprise!! It was quietly growing.

Week 8  15.9mm

Btw anybody out there reading my posts?

Week 4 – Week 6 _ July 2014

On the following week from the Beta test we had a pre-planned summer holidays. So my next scan was not until I’m back from our holidays. Usually when we are on holidays we do a lot of walking this holiday was no exception. I had also pre-planned a small hike to a national park by Mediterranean sea. I checked with the Dr and we did the hike as planned. I did it slower than my normal pace. I did not have much symptoms other than usual bloating caused by the estrogen patches.

Week 6 – At the beginning of this week I experienced more cramps and vomited orange liquid in the morning. I take my pregnancy multi vitamins (I find centrum has a complete package) and Omega 3. Since I do not eat fish I take them. The fish oil usually worsens the nausea. We had our first scan with another Gyne as our regular Dr too was on summer vacation.

Yolk Sac at 6 weeks

2 Weeks Wait July 2014

Day 2 after D1 transfer - we went on a shopping trip. So I did moderate amount of walking but I did not carry any heavy stuff. A was not happy about me walking on the next day but I took it as usual. Walking should not be harmful right?

Day 3 Usual regular activity watering plants, cooking etc., One thing I remember is we had a big fight over some minor issue. Later I regretted this thinking I stressed myself too much.

Day 4 After lunch I felt a twinging pain in my lower abdomen. For a minute I felt happy then googled and realized it’s too early for implantation to occur.

Day 9 Felt a bit of cramps like period it was also the time for my period.

Day 12 I get a weird pain just before bowel movement around the time of my period. I had a similar pain. Later I also noticed a line of blood, pinkish in tissue.

Day 13 Blood test. Positive Again, HCG of 147  to be repeated to confirm. I’m skeptical due my past experience.

HCG to be repeated in 2 days which was HCG of 398 fairly good because it has more than doubled. I’m 4 weeks PUPO (Pregnant until proven otherwise). 

FET Frozen Embryo Transfer - July 2014

Everything is beneficial it is a quote in Bhagawat Geeta we grew up hearing this. Since the last MC I took a break from all these TTC efforts. Focused myself in outdoor activities climbing greater heights. During my last pregnancy even though I was for only 8 week I gained some weight. Since I’m a foodie I used pregnancy as an excuse of binge. But taking a break helped me to shed all that excess weight. Not only that I also started working full time again. I never imagined that I would eventually be working here in a foreign land. The TTC break had to be pro-longed as I wanted to settle down in my new Job.

After more than a year break I decided to try it again. But I was in a totally different mindset this time. I’m not desperate like before. I have accepted to live the life to the fullest with what I have and not to chase behind the unrealistic desires. If it doesn't happen it is not meant to be! Well at one point if everyone learns to accept the fact that not everyone will be blessed with everything in life, this acceptance will help one to move forward instead of being stuck.

FET procedure

Injection on Day 21 I think it is for down regulation

June 13^th Period

Day 2 of the cycle start with 2 patches of estrogen once in 2 days (I usually place it below my belly button)

In between in week 2 I went for an intra-uterine scan, Dr informed me that the lining can be improved. Therefore increase the patches to 3 a day and also introduced ultrogestan.

During this time I had an office party and had to drink champagne, Dr’s advice was that I can have light alcohol until the time I do FET. I’m only a social drinker.

Day 21 FET was scheduled I took a medical for this day.

Procedure is pretty simple in this clinic. No full bladder! Usually since I find it a bit painful, I take a painkiller 30 minutes before the procedure.

After we minutes in the waiting room, we get called into the transfer room embryologists brief us about the thawed embryos. We had another embryologist this time. We both liked the earlier one who did last year. Not a good results. As one embryo was 3 cells and the other one had not cleaved. It is a Day 2 transfer. Ok not much hope then. But just before the transfer embryologist informed that the other embryo has cleaved into 2 cells as well.

 

3 cells and the one that cleaved into 2 cells last minute

I had to lie down, Dr will insert the vaginal speculum, clean the remaining of ultogestan, once its ready embryologist brings the catheter with the embryos are inserted. While doing this Dr asked me to slightly lift my buttocks. Its over in few minutes. Embryologist confirms that catheter is empty. I lie down for 30 minutes and get a taxi ride to home.

After reaching home I just made myself warmed up pre-cooked food. Watched TV and took a  good nap afterwards. As it was a Friday I had the weekend to take rest.

After BFP

March - April 2013
at 4 weeks  – I felt very warm specially my head was heaty just like it is before cold and right side sharp pain

15^th day post D2 Transfer – HCG 117 line of blood!

16^th day post D2 Transfer – Line of blood with stretchy mucus

17^th day post D2 Transfer – Brown spotting!! Am I getting my period?

18th day post D2 Transfer – Intra vaginal scan to confirm pregnancy but no embryonic sac seen! HCG 722

at 5 weeks – Yolk and sac seen. Relieved….Can I finally be happy that I’m pregnant. At least I will till the next scan.

at 7 weeks – Heartbeat seen, finally I can call myself pregnant. DH started to think about baby names. Not me as I’m more wiser on this whole journey and aware of the hurdles on the way.

7 weeks image

Since my last scan, I was occasionally nauseous bloated some cramps on right side.  However on Sunday and Monday I felt a bit more cramps. My next scheduled appointment is only on Thursday.

at 8 weeks - Dr scanned in several angles to detect the heartbeat but no heartbeat seen. Dr informed it is a spontaneous miscarriage most likely fetus stopped developing 5 days before. Perhaps this was the reason for cramps.

This was when heart beat could not be detected anymore

I should say even though it was hard to accept I was reasonably brave. I asked Dr about the next attempt for FET. First step is to wait for a natural miscarriage to happen. I started bleeding on the following week on Saturday. It was unbearable pain and blood flow was so heavy that I used 4 pads in an hour. By the time K went to pharmacy and got the pain killers it had come out. If you wish to see how it looked like click on this link. Warning image could be disturbing!!!!

Update - IVF Attempt No 3 with Dr Pavic

Feb 2013

New doctor (Dr Nenad Pavic, Fertilitas) in a new country with a new procedure. I was on long protocol which means more injections. Started on injections from Day 21 wait for the period and start stimulating. Egg retrieval on Day 21.

D1 - Egg Retrieval day – I was put on half anesthesia which means I was half awake when they retrieved eggs. Which was unusual compared to my past experiences.  Nurse will push my lower abdomen and Dr will basically suck those eggs from my ovaries. They retrieved 14 eggs. Ah haven't got this many in the past.

D2 Received a call from clinic informing that 12 fertilized and 10 will be frozen.

D3 2 4 cell embryos were transferred. Now the wait begins

4 cell embryos in D2

2 Week wait

These are the symptoms I had during the 2 week waiting time.

3^rd day post D2 transfer – noticed pimples, may be due to the increased hormones I had been injecting into me.

7^th day post D2 transfer – Cramps in lower abdomen

8^th day post D2 transfer – Cramps again

9^th day post D2 transfer – Noticed a different smell when I passed urine in morning (More of a flowery cinnamonny smell) very different.

11^th day post D2 transfer – Noticed stretchy liquid from down below

13^th day post D2 Transfer – Blood test day HCG of 75 (Not high as in usual cases) Even though it is positive it is not that high therefore test has to be done again in 2 days to confirm pregnancy! Good news not good enough to celebrate the pregnancy.

Post "BFN" Consultation with Dr Prashant

I was very nervous while waiting for 1+ hour to see Dr. Longest I've waited to see Dr. But Dr also prefered to speak to us last, since its gonna be a long discussion. Which I totally agreed. I was hoping that I don't melt down and create a drama in front of him. Luckily I didn't.....


After my ET Dr mentioned that he'd be surprised if I don't get pregnant. Apparently it's due to 2 reasons.


1. My uterus lining was perfect on the day of transfer (I think it was 8mm)
2. My 8 cell embie was compacting which means edges between the cells are getting blurred, so it's becoming harder to count the number of cells. Compacting embryo has more chances of implanting compared to my 2nd embie which was 6 cell.


Ok, in that case 'Why didn't I get pregnant?' No answer for that. This stage is beyond anyone's control. So we have to leave it to fate.


Could it be due to my dry cough? No you cannot clearly define the cause for BFN.


Dr believes that we should continue to try. He firmly believes that I can get pregnant due to these reasons.


1. Age Factor I'm going to be 34 
2. We got good quality embryos.


But my problem is getting matured eggs, since my eggs were not matured enough it had been difficult to retrieve them.


So challenge now is to get matured eggs. For which Dr recommended I should continue with my medication. 


I want to take a break, I really don't like dumping whole loads of tablets into me. So both of us can start medicine 3 months before our next cycle. And of course loosing weight could help to improve egg quality and uterus lining.


Also it is believed that fish oil, royal jelly, green tea, acupuncture and Co-Q 10 could improve egg quality. But I'm not sure if its ok to take all these together.


Dr recommended a change in approach for our next cycle. Which could be freezing the embryos and transferring them after a natural cycle. Sometimes patients uterus can be sensitive to stimulation hormones. Scan cannot determine this sensitivity. (Japanese usually practice this method)


Also getting the embryos to blastocyst stage and doing D5 embryo transfer is another option. But in my case I'm not sure if I'd get embryos till blastocycst stage, because during past 2 cycles I only got 2 embryos.


Other important factor facilitating implantation is stress levels. More positive, stable and cheerful you are greater the chances of implantation. This is proven in an Israeli research where clowns performed to patients for 15 minutes after the procedure. “Medical Clowning” improved pregnancy rates compared to a group not exposed to a clown on the day of implantation." In conclusion patients who are less stressed and are positive in attitude had better outcomes.  (See source article)


Since having this kind of entertainment is not available everywhere, we can take our own entertainment devise with us to keep us relaxed after ET. Also figure out our own means of being cool and calm during the whole treatment process. It could be meditation, exercise, yoga, acupuncture.....


Ok now my focus is on weight loss and on improving my egg quality.


One major relief is Dr's strong belief that I can get pregnant. sigh....our journey continues...

The Results

After the embryo transfer I came across this wonderful info about "What happens to the embryo after transfer?" from http://www.nyufertilitycenter.org/ivf/embryo_transfer.


3-Day Transfer

Days Past Transfer (DPT)	Embryo Development
One	The embryo continues to grow and develop, turning from a 6-8 cell embryo into a morula
Two	The cells of the morula continue to divide, developing into a blastocyst
Three	The blastocyst begins to hatch out of its shell
Four	The blastocyst continues to hatch out of its shell and begins to attach itself to the uterus
Five	The blastocyst attaches deeper into the uterine lining, beginning implantation
Six	Implantation continues
Seven	Implantation is complete, cells that will eventually become the placenta and fetus have begun to develop
Eight	Human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) starts to enter the blood stream
Nine	Fetal development continues and hCG continues to be secreted
Ten	Fetal development continues and hCG continues to be secreted
Eleven	Levels of hCG are now high enough to detect a pregnancy

So I kind of knew everyday what would be happening to embies inside my body. So by Day 6 post transfer, I was absolutely certain that I'm not pregnant. My friend challenged me, telling that I could be wrong. My answer was I'm 100% certain. My hubby believed what I said. How can I be so sure of my results, when my test is due only on Day12 post transfer?

When implantation occurs, there is increased blood flow to the uterus, and increase in hormone production i.e. estrogen and progesterone. This results in increased creamy cervical mucus(CM). In my case till D6 post transfer since ET day it had been very dry.  Usually it is the case after ovulation for me i.e. from mid cycle it's always dry till I get my menses  Since CM  was completely dry I was absolutely certain that I did not succeed.


Besides I did not have any other pregnancy symptoms, although these can be mimicked by lutel phase hormone support medicine. For example these medicine causes abdomen cramps, breast tenderness and bloatedness.


I cried, cried and cried; I could not take it, why does it always have to be like this? I've never experienced, the feeling of being pregnant. Will I ever experience? How many times do I have to go through IVF before I succeed? We both hugged and cried not knowing what to do?


I'm determined to do one thing before my next attempt i.e. "loose weight". My BMI is 26.6 I want to bring it down to 24. My thought behind it is, at least I'll do whatever is manageable i.e. within my control. Coz obviously pregnancy is something beyond my control.


Only time can answer if loosing weight could bring me success......

On Beta Test Day - Today

Went to the clinic by 9.30 am, did the blood test. And was hanging around in nearby mall. Decided to do a hair treatment while waiting. I was very nervous, even-though I knew my results. By the way yesterday morning I did a HPT which was 'negative'. Dreaded call never came till 12.30pm even-though they said that they'd get the results in 2 hours.


I called them at 1pm, and nurse said they have just got the results and will call me back. I spoke to my hubby and we almost guessed it. Because if it was positive they would have immediately congratulated me right?

Hubby told no point in hanging around, he told me to just go home. It's confirmed now. So I finished small errands in the mall and was just getting into the car, when I finally received the call confirming that my cycle didn't work out.


So now what? I really want to loose weight and improve my egg quality before I do my next cycle. So please share with me any tips you have


1. To improve my egg quality
2. Improve DH's sperm count
3. How to succeed in IVF ?


I hope and pray I too can be pregnant and become a mom for healthy babies one day.......

Celebrities who have gone through IVF

I came across this blog post by Nicole, Australia. It's summarizes the information about all celebrities who have done IVF. Check out this interesting post. "Celebrities & IVF, those who have been honest about it"

Giuliana Rancic's Breast Cancer Discovery During IVF Attempt no 3

I started watching this reality show "Giuliana & Bill" since they too are going through IVF to have their babies. She was lucky to get pregnant in her 1st IVF attempt, but miscarried in 8 weeks. On her 2nd attempt she got OHSS after egg retrieval and was admitted in hospital on the same night. Hence they did a FET and it was BFN.


Giuliana & Bills latest season showed them going to fertility clinic to start their IVF 3. So I was curious to know if she suceeded in IVF 3. I googled " Giuliana's IVF 3 results". I was shocked to see the news about her new battle with breast cancer. It took me a while to digest this news  and I was in tears. Oh my Gosh, why do some of us has to battle with all these challenges on our journey towards becoming parents.  In the mean time I do envy some others whose life is so simple and perfect. However, It's not the case for me neither for poor Giuliana. I always have to battle to get what I want.....


She was on IVF stimulation, when her Dr ordered a mammogram for her. Because if she got pregnant, pregancy hormones would  aggravate cancer, even if there is  a small risk of cancerous cells. Unfornately test results came out positive. When she got her results she was on D7 of IVF treatment. Dr's had advised her to go ahead with egg retrieval and then do the breast cancer treatment. Now she has undergone surgery, and would be going through radiation treatment for 6 and half weeks. 


There is lot of debate and concern if IVF and cancer is related. I wish to point out below thoughts shared by Dr Nancy Snyderman & Dr. Mark Perloe, medical director at Georgia Reproductive Specialists. (Giuliana's IVF 3 Dr).

• Could Rancic's breast cancer be connected in any way to the fertility treatment she had undergone?  
  "No," said Dr. Nancy Snyderman. The hormones used in both in vitro fertilization and birth control pills have been studied and "there's no known cause and effect," .
• Should we all do mamogram before IVF?   “We certainly want people to have a full health evaluation before beginning fertility treatments,”  “But we wouldn’t recommend a mammogram unless there was a family history of breast cancer or a genetic risk.” As for routine mammograms in infertile women aged 26 to 36, Perloe said, that would be a mistake. That's because mammograms come with some radiation exposure. "So you have to balance the risk of exposure to radiation from testing against the likelihood that there might be something there," Perloe said.  

• Despite the hormone paranoia, it's even possible that IVF might be protective. “The evidence is that IVF has no effect or lowers incidence, said Adrian V. Lee, a professor of pharmacology and chemical biology and director of the Women’s Cancer Research Center at the University of Pittsburgh’s Magee-Womens  Research Institute. “The largest study in Sweden -- of 25,000 women who had IVF compared to 1.4 million without  -- showed a 25 percent reduction in breast cancer and a 40 percent reduction in cervical cancer in those who had IVF.”

Source - Doctors : IVF not to blame for Rancic's breast cancer 

What I still don't know is "Why did Dr ordered Giuliana to do a mammogram?" Please let me know if any of you'll know the answer.

2 Week wait

As soon as I came home after ET, I lied in bed for few hours, later had my lunch watching TV, and again lied down after inserting progesterone pills.


1. I spent a lot of time on internet, reading ivf blogs and early pregnancy symptoms. Infact I created this blog during this time.


2. Watched TV, but for me internet is more interesting than TV. These are some of my favorite TV shows. Kardashians, MasterChef, America's next Top Model, Guliana & Bill, some tamil soaps etc., 


3 Watched a comedy flick with my husband and laughed out loud.


Oh I have this worrying dry cough, even on ET day I had this cough, its very strong I fear when I cough, I squeeze my stomach and cough out, I worry I might de-stabilise my embies. I took Prosphan a herbal dry cough syrup and drank lot of hot water.


4. I drank around 10 cups of hot/warm water flavored with lemon juice, ate healthy, took only plenty of fruits and milk with 'ensure' for dinner.


5. Sorted out digital photos which had piled up in my camera and computer.


6. Updated our expenses including amount we spent on our Baby endeavor till now.


7. Did simple work at home like sweeping the floor, ironing, cooking (hubby did all chopping, and washing)


8. I had some choclates lying in my fridge, on and off had them. (I was avoiding caffeine so chocolates only on and off)
Even in mornings I did not take coffee, instead switched to milk flavored with milo and 'ensure'.


9. Hubby gave some sit, search & update assignments which I had to do lah...


Note : during my 2 ww I hardly had any pregnancy symptoms, not even the one's mimicked by progesterone and estrogen pills :(, so with each passing day I'm becoming more and more certain that I'm not pregnant. One of the very early symptoms of pregnancy is increased creamy discharge. This should happen after implantation. Formation of mucus plug in cervical canal, and increased blood flow, and increased production of progesterone and estrongen resulting from pregnancy are the causes for increase in cervical mucus. In my case it's very dry down there. It's usually the case for me, before I get my periods. 


So readers, this is the reason I'm becoming more and more certain of my results again a BFN. Sigh..................Oh God will ever become pregnant? I'm not going to give up! "Winners never Quit, Quitters never Win" 


(heard this quote from Bill Rancic, Gulliana's hubby)

IVF Attempt No 2

Sep 2011


D2 scan revealed around 20 follicles on both side (because of PCOS). Dr said he will be starting my treatment with Menopur 300iu. But before I was ordered to do a blood test to check my progesterone and estradiol levels.  Only if hormones are within the range I can start the treatment. I went to bangsar village and was window shopping till I get the results. 


After around 2 hours nurse called me to  inform that I could pick my medicine. I did my first injection in the clinic and continued with same dose from D2-D4. On D5 & 6 my dose was Menopur 225iu. During this time I felt very bloated, I drank a lot of water, consumed one or two eggs daily, and continues with my exercise routine. (1 1/2 hours cardio and 1/2 hour weights every other day) From D6, I also started my second daily injection, Cetrotide 0.25mg to prevent me from ovulating.


I was very nervous for my D6 scan, thinking of my previous experience of not responding to stimulating medicine very well. Scan revealed 3 follicles on L and 6 on R ovary.


From D7-9, I continued with same dose i.e. Menopur 225iu. Again I was nervous for D9 scan, because last scan Dr told big ones are on left, so I was thinking what if, like my first attempt if others did not grow. And considering the fact that Dr has reduced my dose.


Scan revealed 3 on L and 5 on R, which Dr said is exactly what he's looking for and was happy with my scan results. I went with my bladder full that day as Dr also did an abdomen scan to check my uterus lining. It was 6.8mm and Dr said above 6 is ok.


D10 my dose was 150iu & D11 no menopur only cetrotide. D11 scan revealed 8-9 follicles and again abdomen scan reveled my uterus lining was ok. 


On D11 night I also had to take Ovidrol shot to release my eggs, for egg pick up scheduled after 36 hours from injection time.


I was very nervous before egg pick up, considering my previous experiences. I kept thinking repeatedly 'what if, if they are empty sacks like last time'. My blood pressure spiked before my egg pick up.


I was little relieved to see confident Dr, cheerfully wishing me before my egg pick up.


While I was slowly getting back to reality after egg pick anesthesia, I heard someone calling my name. It was Dr, he came to inform me that I had 7 eggs. My next question was 'how are their quality?' (I didn't know that time Dr would not know about the quality till next day) Dr's answer was 'ok'. (May be he said that to relieve me)


After I was fully recovered from sedation and had a cup of milo, I was ready to go. (Nurse in the ward commended that I was very quick) I went upstairs to Dr's clinic and met with the nurse. Dr also made a quick visit to ask if I'm feeling ok. Dr was very confident he was telling that I might have some embryos to freeze this time. Well my answer was 'Well Dr, that depends on egg quality and sperm', Dr was 'Let's hope for the best'.


After I came back home I had severe cramps, it was almost as if I could not stand straight, and it was painful when I was coughing or laughing. After a days rest, next day I was feeling absolutely normal.


Due to my past experience, I asked nurse to inform me about the progress next day. From morning I nervously waited for the call from clinic. I was so nervous, I really can't recall me being so nervous in recent pass. Except 16 years back I was nervous like this when I was waiting for my GCE O/L results.


Finally around 9.30 am embryologist called me, (that was quick) ' you have 4 matured eggs, 3 fertilized'. I was quickly doing my math and comparing my results to other patients whom I know.


Patient 1 got 15 eggs, 12 fertilized, 6 good quality on D3
Patient 2 got 15 eggs, 11 fertilized, 2 transferred on D2, balance frozen


OMG my results is nothing compared to them, norm is 80% fertilization, in my case only 42%. From that point onward I was very stressed thinking if my embies would survive till D3.


I had two days before scheduled embryo transfer, first day I went shopping and did hair color  second day whole day I was busy cooking as we were hosting dinner for some friends at our place. It was a good distraction for me.


On embryo transfer day I arrive at the clinic, I emptied bladder one hour before scheduled transfer, and started drinking water. I took 2 glasses of water, when I changed cloths went in to the procedure room for abdomen scan, embryologist told my bladder was full. Thank God, this limit is bearable for me. 


My hubby was allowed to sit with me during transfer, but he too has to wear special cloths. He looked very funny with it, I was laughing at him. Good, some distraction for me.


After few minutes Dr came, he informed that 3 eggs had some chromosomal issue hence they could not inject sperm into it, and out of 4, 3 fertilized and 2 survived till Day 3, 3rd one did not divide into cells.


Dr said those two are good quality embryos and he'd be surprised if I don't get pregnant. I asked 'how many cells' & 'how about fragmentation'. One was 8 cell and other was 6 cell, fragmentation nil. Ok I'm satisfied with the results. I was hoping if all 3 survived till D3, it'll be good to transfer all 3, which means more chances of pregnancy. But 2 is ok.


Inserting speculum inside me is very very painful, even though some women don't feel any pain or only minor discomfort. May be it took around 10 minutes to do the transfer and it was done.


I brought my ipod and eye mask with me. so while I was resting I asked them to turn off the lights and was listening to music. Didn't even realize 10 minutes passing by. Afterwards I was allowed to pass urine, and rest another 30 minutes in recovery room.


We changed cloths, went to the clinic to get Lutel phase support medicine.(Duphaston (Oral Progesterone), Utrogestan (Vaginal insert Progesterone), and Progynova (Estrogen to start from 5th day post transfer)  Friendly nurse wished me luck and I am required to go back for my blood test 12th day post transfer.




Word of Caution - Maximum 2-3 glasses are adequate to have your bladder full, start drinking from an hour before the procedure. Don't over do because you will not be able to relax after embryo transfer if your bladder is very full.


For egg retrieval we are supposed to go fasting, you may feel uncomfortable if you have not emptied bowel in the morning. My tip is eat plenty of fruit and drink 8-10 glasses of water on previous night and  so that you can pass motion without any trouble. I ate one big guava which works well for me.

Appointment with Dr Prashant Nadkarni

April 2011 - Sep2011

We both went to see Dr P. One good thing is, this clinic is closer to my hubby's office, which means he'll accompany me for all the appointments. During last two attempts I always go alone and my hubby comes only during procedures.

Dr listens to our history and shared that PCOS patients respond differently to IVF medicine. Not in a predictable manner, hence my past results. Dr asked me to do fasting blood test to check my insulin and vitamin D levels.

Hubby has to take Vitamin E, multi vitamin, Co-Q 10, Vitamin C & D. These medications will prevent DNA damage in sperms. For both of us its recommended to take Omega 3. We opted for flaxseed oil capsules.

I also did accupuncture, may be for a month and after a while I could not take needles any more, so I stopped.

Dr also told that having normal BMI i.e. below 25 is essential, because higher the weight is higher the rate of miscarriage.

My insulin levels were high, it has to be below 11. Insulin plays an important role in egg quality. Hence Dr prescribed glucophage xr500mg twice a day, along with metformin 500mg twice a day.

I took metformin after lunch  and dinner, and glucophage xr (extended release of metformin) after dinner and managed to bring down my insulin levels within the range.

Next is Vitamin D, my vitamin D levels were way below required levels. Vitamin D levels are important for uterus lining. So Dr prescribed GNC vitamin D 400 iu capsules 3 in the morning 3 in night, totally 2400iu daily to bring my vitamin D level under normal range. He also recommended I do swimming and be outdoors to get enough sunlight, which I'm not so fond of considering hot, humid, sweaty weather in kl.

By June 2011, my test revealed my Vitamin D levels are within the range. Dr said now I'm ready for my IVF.

We were hoping to do our IVF in July, but got interrupted by unforeseen travel opportunity. So we thought of doing it in end of August.

But after I returned from my holidays, due to my binging, my insulin levels had spiked up again. So I waited till Sep so that I can regulate my insulin levels.

Yes I managed bring my insulin under control and I'm ready for my next IVF.

Oh how about my frozen embies?

March 2011

I prepared my self to do frozen embryo transfer. Went for a scan on D2 to check if my uterus lining was below 4mm and started on estrogen pills to build up my lining.

And on D14, I went for a scan again, Dr revealed my lining is not optimum. A common problem with PCOS patients, still its ok and we can go ahead with FET.

Next day is thawing day, I nervously waited for the call from Co-ordinator. I remember it was a Thursday. Yep finally she called to inform that 4 cell embryo did not survive and it lysed. And the other one has not divided into cells, hence not suitable for transfer.

I was devastated, but no choice. We decide to see Dr again. Dr patiently listened to me, my weepings and explained to us. I wanted to try another cycle soon. But Dr recommended I try out another clinic, with another Dr. Dr Mahesh is such a nice Dr, I don't think most of the Dr's in town does this but he recommended me to one of this colleague or he also gave an option that we try it at KKH in Singapore.

I was very firm that I wanted to try my next cycle with same Dr, because I was very comfortable with him. Dr's point was; different Dr's will have different views, and their approach differs, so what works for one patient might not work for the other.

After we came home, we both talked and decided we try out this Dr recommended by Dr Mahesh. So I contacted co-ordinator and requested letter briefing my treatment summary.

And I also make an appointment to see Dr Prashant Nadkarni at KL Fertility Centre.

My Ramblings (Disapointment, Frustration & I feel like I'm a total failure:(((

Feb 2011


After my BFN, I was very upset, cried to recover from the sorrow. Sorrow that everyone around you except you are getting pregnant. Don't you feel that way? Ever since we've started attempting to conceive it's very hard for me to digest when I hear the news of pregnancy of friends & family. As we jokingly say it seems like for everyone else its happening on "Press of Button". But for us even IVF is a struggle. Sometimes it spoils my whole day thinking what a failure I'm, that I couldn't become a mom still :(( will I ever become one? Should I blame it on my weight? my hubby? my karma? I don't know. Its very tuff to cope up and walk around pretending I'm happy while watching all of those perfect families around me. My hubby would be such a great Dad, and me I've got some great cooking skills which is just going to waste without having a family. 


Oh God I really don't wont to give up, in the meantime its a torture to repeatedly go through IVF cycles again, & again. One thing you still don't know is; all these stimulating medications has side effects. Patients who have gone through IVF are more prone to ovarian and breast cancer. But I don't mind anything even if I get sick its not a problem if I can become a "Mother". Sometimes I feel I should not be desperate like this, people say it happens only when you 'Let Go'. But how can u give up? can you? well I'm unable to ...... sometimes I don't even like to associate with anyone, because I feel everyone else has perfect families except for us. "Two loners going on a dark long journey" without any sight of light at the end...


Note : How do I cope with this IVF stress? I like to sweat it out, every time i feel stressed, disappointed and frustrated I head to the gym and work out rigorously till I drop my last bit of sweat. I've found gyming is a very good stress reliever for me. If my body won't cope up I would tell, "if you can't become pregnant, at least cope with this strenuousness"


Other method which I also do is cry, cry and cry and vomit out all your sorrow to someone. Next put some loud music and engage your self in favorite activity.