Our IVF Journey
24 April 2015
Success
This blog is closed after success! Managed to have 2 beautiful babies through FET's. Thanks God for your blessings!
31 March 2015
Week 37 – 41
I have been working
till week 39 but at the start of the week 39 I was down with severe flu, sore
throat and phlegm so I took around 1 ½ week medical till my due date. As I’m
writing this now I’m 3 days passed my due date. Despite my walking, climbing
stairs and active life style baby seems to be settled well inside me. Now on 31st
March I personally do not want him to arrive on the 1st April. So
today and tomorrow I will take it slow just being a couch potato!
In the meantime I’m
under continuous monitoring for baby’s heartbeat amniotic fluid etc., to ensure
he is fine inside me. I’m also at a higher dose of insulin now at 8-8-10 all 3
meals to control my blood sugar levels as well as baby’s weight. Last time he
was approximately 4kgs.
By end of this week
i.e. maximum by due date + 5 days I will be induced. I’m still hoping for
normal delivery. As per last check with midwife baby’s head is nicely
positioned and I was dilated. So I’m still hoping that things will go smoothly
with the long awaited arrival of my baby!
I would also like to
mention here how supportive and friendly the family clinic - Fertilitas has been
all throughout my pregnancy.
24 February 2015
Week 17 – 36 – 2nd & entering 3rd Trimester
My second trimester
had been pretty quiet with almost back to normal life. Feeling of flutters
which slightly grew into strong kicks which then turned into movements close to the third trimester. Yes I do not feel much kicking anymore instead I feel and see
my stomach moving sometimes specially after meals.
At around week 26 I
had to go on a tuff hike climbing around 400 meters. I had climbed around 1500
meters in the past but this 400 meters seemed never ending hike with my
pregnancy. I was a little worried after completing this challenge, as around
this time I also started to feel less kicking. Thank God scan ensured
everything was ok.
At around week 30 I was diagnosed with gestational diabetics. I have no explanation as to how I got
these, because all I craved during the pregnancy was sour and spicy stuff. I
could hardly take anything sweet. I would consume home baked cakes occasionally
as snacks and I liked them because it was less sweet. Gestational diabetics
means the baby gets more supply of sugar than required and he might grow big in
size. Resulting in early delivery, c-section and baby having blood sugar
problems after birth.
I went for a diet
counselling and also had to monitor my blood sugar levels at home before and
after meals. Finally my Dr referred me to a endocrinologist to control my sugar
levels with medicine. But still at week 36 I have not seen the Dr as it is
carnival season now everything is shut. My iron and B12 levels are also low, I
feel extremely tired at times. I try to eat an egg a day and add more spinach
to my diet in addition to all the multi-vitamins I take.
In the meantime scan
reveals that lil fella is growing at a good speed and estimated to be slightly
above the range. He was estimated to be around 2.9kg at 35 weeks.
In the meantime I have
started climbing stairs (3-5 storey) and walk at least 3 km a day during week
days trying my best to have a normal birth. Weight gain so far at 36 weeks
12.5 kgs.
12 November 2014
First Trimester Screening Medium Risk
Week 12- 20
I had my first trimester screening when I was 13 weeks. NT scan looked ok at 1.4mm. I also had to do a blood test, and the results from the blood test came for trisomy 13/18 as 1:305. Below 300 is high risk and mine in border level high risk. Trisomy 21 was at 1:3989.
I had my first trimester screening when I was 13 weeks. NT scan looked ok at 1.4mm. I also had to do a blood test, and the results from the blood test came for trisomy 13/18 as 1:305. Below 300 is high risk and mine in border level high risk. Trisomy 21 was at 1:3989.
at 13 weeks 7.9 cm |
at 18 weeks 3D image |
Finally at week 20 we got the all clear 'Low risk' results.
Meanwhile I have gained 5 kgs so far, and still vomit even at week 20 when my stomach is empty for a long time.
I think this whole trisomy drama occurred because I had low B12. I feel it is one of the important pregnancy vitamin that is ignored by many. See link on http://www.webmd.com/baby/guide/anemia-in-pregnancy
However finally I'm relieved to have the results and now trying prepare myself mentally for the arrival of Baby Boy!
15 September 2014
Week 8 – 12 & Being Vegetarian during Pregnancy (Aug - Sep)
Since last scan at
week 8 things have started to get back to normal. Less nausea in morning. Occasional
cramps, dizziness and headache but no more breast tenderness. I wasn’t sure. I
worry all the time. AK keeps saying how much would you worry? ‘It happens if it
has to happen’ That’s pretty true if I keep worrying there will be no end as
this is something that will continue till… I don’t know when. (education, exams,
job, wedding, birth of grandkids) Stop Worrying!
Week 9
We went to our usual
Dr Pavic again. Scan was ok, things were normal. But I had to do a blood test
to check Vit D, Iron levels and B12. I follow a vegetarian diet and eat egg only occasionally purely due to health reasons. Therefore these
levels needed to be checked. Results came out to be Vit D low, Iron Ok, B12 low
but no need of injections. I had to take Vit D supplements and I also started
drinking Marmite for B12.
My diet so far…
Breakfast – Full cup
milk with nescafe and ovomaltin, 1 cup Marmite, 1 Apple
Lunch – Salad, legumes,
corn, rice, relatively light lunch
Dinner – Noodles with
vegetables, tofu and egg
Pasta, tomato,
mozzarella Rice and curry etc.,
I drink milk, eat
cheese and consume legumes like lentils, chickpeas, kidney beans etc.,
I also take
supplements which is Centrum Materna, Vit D and Omega 3
Week 11
After my scan on week
9 Dr mentioned that I could come back in a month for week 13 scan which would
be Nuchal Translucency scan. I could not wait that long so went for a scan
during Week 11. It was a miraculous scene! The little embryo had grown into a
tiny human with small head tiny hands and tiny legs at a total length of 4.6cm (No photo)
4 September 2014
Week 6 – 8 July - Aug
Since my last scan
seeing the yolk sac I had intermittent cramps and vomited again one morning. I
was walking to work, on my way I had to stop vomit in a plastic bag carry it
for a while till I came across a bin. Quite weird!
Close to the scheduled scan on Week 7 I had cramps they were more frequent started on a Thursday evening last
till Friday night. Some were pretty sharp. Eventhough scan showed heartbeat and
good growth, I was very apprehensive specially considering my last miscarriage
happened with lots of cramps. Dr keeps telling me, if you don’t bleed no need
to worry. But it could happen that you aren’t bleeding due to the progesterone suppositories.
Week 7 |
Around week 8 I did
not experience much symptoms. I prepared myself mentally and my hubby as I did
not want to get it as a shock via the scan. We went to the scan and I told Dr that
I’m not sure due to lack of symptoms. Dr directly did a ultrasound scan. (all
this time scan was intrauterine) Surprise!! It was quietly growing.
Week 8 15.9mm |
19 August 2014
Week 4 – Week 6 _ July 2014
On the following week
from the Beta test we had a pre-planned summer holidays. So my next scan was
not until I’m back from our holidays. Usually when we are on holidays we do a
lot of walking this holiday was no exception. I had also pre-planned a small
hike to a national park by Mediterranean sea. I checked with the Dr and we did
the hike as planned. I did it slower than my normal pace. I did not have much
symptoms other than usual bloating caused by the estrogen patches.
Week 6 – At the
beginning of this week I experienced more cramps and vomited orange liquid in
the morning. I take my pregnancy multi vitamins (I find centrum has a complete
package) and Omega 3. Since I do not eat fish I take them. The fish oil usually
worsens the nausea. We had our first scan with another Gyne as our regular Dr
too was on summer vacation.
Yolk Sac at 6 weeks |
18 August 2014
2 Weeks Wait July 2014
Day 2 after D1 transfer - we went on a shopping trip. So I did moderate
amount of walking but I did not carry any heavy stuff. A was not happy about me
walking on the next day but I took it as usual. Walking should not be harmful
right?
Day 3 Usual regular activity watering plants, cooking etc., One thing I remember
is we had a big fight over some minor issue. Later I regretted this thinking I
stressed myself too much.
Day 4 After lunch I felt a twinging pain in my lower abdomen. For a minute I
felt happy then googled and realized it’s too early for implantation to occur.
Day 9 Felt a bit of cramps like period it was also the time for my period.
Day 12 I get a weird pain just before bowel movement around the time of my
period. I had a similar pain. Later I also noticed a line of blood, pinkish in
tissue.
Day 13 Blood test. Positive Again, HCG of 147
to be repeated to confirm. I’m skeptical due my past experience.
HCG to be repeated in
2 days which was HCG of 398 fairly good because it has more than doubled. I’m 4 weeks PUPO (Pregnant until
proven otherwise).
FET Frozen Embryo Transfer - July 2014
Everything is
beneficial it is a quote in Bhagawat Geeta we grew up hearing this. Since the
last MC I took a break from all these TTC efforts. Focused myself in outdoor
activities climbing greater heights. During my last pregnancy even though I was
for only 8 week I gained some weight. Since I’m a foodie I used pregnancy as an
excuse of binge. But taking a break helped me to shed all that excess weight.
Not only that I also started working full time again. I never imagined that I
would eventually be working here in a foreign land. The TTC break had to be pro-longed
as I wanted to settle down in my new Job.
After more than a year
break I decided to try it again. But I was in a totally different mindset this
time. I’m not desperate like before. I have accepted to live the life to the
fullest with what I have and not to chase behind the unrealistic desires. If it doesn't happen it is not meant to be! Well
at one point if everyone learns to accept the fact that not everyone will be
blessed with everything in life, this acceptance will help one to move forward
instead of being stuck.
FET procedure
Injection on Day 21 I
think it is for down regulation
June 13th
Period
Day 2 of the cycle
start with 2 patches of estrogen once in 2 days (I usually place it below my
belly button)
In between in week 2 I
went for an intra-uterine scan, Dr informed me that the lining can be improved.
Therefore increase the patches to 3 a day and also introduced ultrogestan.
During this time I had
an office party and had to drink champagne, Dr’s advice was that I can have light
alcohol until the time I do FET. I’m only a social drinker.
Day 21 FET was
scheduled I took a medical for this day.
Procedure is pretty
simple in this clinic. No full bladder! Usually since I find it a bit painful,
I take a painkiller 30 minutes before the procedure.
After we minutes in
the waiting room, we get called into the transfer room embryologists brief us
about the thawed embryos. We had another embryologist this time. We both liked
the earlier one who did last year. Not a good results. As one embryo was 3
cells and the other one had not cleaved. It is a Day 2 transfer. Ok not much hope then. But just before the transfer
embryologist informed that the other embryo has cleaved into 2 cells as well.
I had to lie down, Dr
will insert the vaginal speculum, clean the remaining of ultogestan, once its
ready embryologist brings the catheter with the embryos are inserted. While
doing this Dr asked me to slightly lift my buttocks. Its over in few minutes.
Embryologist confirms that catheter is empty. I lie down for 30 minutes and get
a taxi ride to home.
After reaching home I
just made myself warmed up pre-cooked food. Watched TV and took a good nap afterwards. As it was a Friday I had
the weekend to take rest.
15 July 2014
After BFP
March - April 2013
at 4 weeks – I felt very warm specially my head was heaty just like it is before cold and right side sharp pain
at 4 weeks – I felt very warm specially my head was heaty just like it is before cold and right side sharp pain
15th day
post D2 Transfer – HCG 117 line of blood!
16th day
post D2 Transfer – Line of blood with stretchy mucus
17th day
post D2 Transfer – Brown spotting!! Am I getting my period?
18th day post D2
Transfer – Intra vaginal scan to confirm pregnancy but no embryonic sac seen!
HCG 722
at 5 weeks – Yolk and sac seen. Relieved….Can I finally be happy that I’m
pregnant. At least I will till the next scan.
at 7 weeks – Heartbeat seen, finally I can call myself pregnant. DH
started to think about baby names. Not me as I’m more wiser on this whole
journey and aware of the hurdles on the way.
7 weeks image |
Since my last scan, I was occasionally nauseous bloated some cramps on right side. However on Sunday and Monday I felt a bit more cramps. My next scheduled appointment is only on Thursday.
at 8 weeks - Dr scanned in several angles to detect the heartbeat but no heartbeat seen. Dr informed it is a spontaneous miscarriage most likely fetus stopped developing 5 days before. Perhaps this was the reason for cramps.
at 8 weeks - Dr scanned in several angles to detect the heartbeat but no heartbeat seen. Dr informed it is a spontaneous miscarriage most likely fetus stopped developing 5 days before. Perhaps this was the reason for cramps.
This was when heart beat could not be detected anymore |
I should say even though it was hard to accept I was reasonably brave. I asked Dr about the next attempt for FET. First step is to wait for a natural miscarriage to happen. I started bleeding on the following week on Saturday. It was unbearable pain and blood flow was so heavy that I used 4 pads in an hour. By the time K went to pharmacy and got the pain killers it had come out. If you wish to see how it looked like click on this link. Warning image could be disturbing!!!!
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